Vic is a stubborn person who never wants to hear that he did something wrong.
And this time he took it too far.
When we met, I knew he was this way, and I must admit I was naive to think I could change him. Here is a lesson: never try to change another human being. This is a personal journey and only they can make the changes they need to live a better life. I saw how stubborn Vic was from the beginning, but I also think this is what attracted me to him. However, that soon faded and I began to see his true colors. Last summer, we had an incident with the AC in the house we bought together. I was at work and Vic was at home resting after his shift at the hospital. He noticed the house was getting warmer despite changing the settings on the thermostat. Instead of contacting an HVAC expert, Vic went on to try and fix the faulty AC. We had talked about the HVAC system and I was adamant he should always call an expert for HVAC repairs. But, it seems once more he decided to ignore me, and this time it would cost us big. Something he did made the AC irreparable, and we had to purchase a new cooling system. He told me this after contacting the HVAC expert to come and try to do repairs. The guy noticed someone had been trying to fix it and asked Vic if it was him. Then he delivered the news that he’d caused too much damage and it was better to get a replacement.